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🎧 [Listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts](https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/she-has-the-audacity/id1595165655?i=1000651142951)

We Discussed:
✨ Why do women assign their achievements to working hard, being really nice, and always being ahead of everyone else, instead of their own talents or smarts? And why does this idea make them seem less valuable than they really are?
✨The importance of women embracing their innate leadership qualities
✨How to stop needing external validation
✨The power of trusting and believing in yourself
✨How to stop allowing societal norms of how women 'should be' take over how you show up and live your life.
Connect with Emily Feairs:
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Instagram: [https://www.instagram.com/emilyfeairs/](https://www.instagram.com/emilyfeairs/)
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/emilyfeairs/
Website: [https://emily-fears-coaching.ck.page/95d31b9d14](https://emily-fears-coaching.ck.page/95d31b9d14)

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