--- title: "Pleasure, Worth, and Rewriting the Script: Unpacking the Layers of Low Desire with Dr. Jordin Wiggins [REPLAY]" entity: "podcast" canonical_url: "https://www.chanaross.com/podcast/pleasure-worth-and-rewriting-the-script-unpacking-the" markdown_url: "https://www.chanaross.com/llms/podcast/pleasure-worth-and-rewriting-the-script-unpacking-the" lastmod: "2025-10-21T01:32:00.000Z" --- 🎧 [Listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts](https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/pleasure-worth-and-rewriting-the-script-unpacking/id1595165655?i=1000732754759) Jordin shares the experiences that shaped her approach to women's sexual health, including her own journey through pain, perfectionism, and burnout. We talk about how over-functioning shows up in intimacy, why desire can be hard to access even when everything "looks fine," and the ways community care can shift the stories we carry. This is not a conversation about quick fixes. It's about naming what's real, unpacking what's been inherited, and choosing a new kind of relationship with your body, your needs, and your voice. Here's what you'll take away from this episode: - Why libido doesn't always improve when the "physiology" is addressed - How shame and silence shape women's experiences with sex and pleasure - What Anhedonia can teach us about burnout and numbness - The role of communication, in and out of the bedroom, in building trust and safety - How worthiness impacts a woman's ability to ask for, receive, and enjoy pleasure - What shifts when we stop fixing and start listening to what's actually true Connect with Dr. Jordin Wiggins for a reminder that if you've ever wondered where your spark went, or if you're craving more depth in your relationship with your body and your desires, this episode will meet you there. ## Work with Chana Chana Ross, Holistic Leadership Coach **Holistic Leadership Coaching** Are you an ambitious woman who is a leader at work, at home, or in the community? Do you struggle with perfectionism, determining your next step, overcoming self-doubt, or advocating for yourself? I want to help you become the best version of yourself. I've helped my clients unlock their potential and take transformational steps in becoming who they're meant to be. So, what are you waiting for? "You 2.0" is closer than you think. [Book a Coaching Connection Call here](https://chanaross.com/coachingconnectioncall)