Manifestation, when using the tools found in ancient Kabbalah, is the practice of co-creating your life with God through what you think, speak, and feel, starting from humility instead of control. If you have done the affirmations and the vision boards and still feel stuck, you may be skipping the inner work underneath. Maybe your first instinct is that you are doing something wrong. Maybe you keep hustling because slowing down to actually know yourself feels unsafe. That pressure is often what blocks the very thing you are trying to create.

On this episode of She Has the Audacity, holistic leadership coach and women's health advocate, Chana Ross sits down with Ayelet Polonsky, a trauma-informed facilitator, Kabbalistic manifestation expert, and creator of The Manifestation Method. After six years in India and eight years studying Kabbalah in Israel, Ayelet explains how pain builds your capacity to hold more light, why abracadabra means "I create as I speak," and how to tell intuition from fear. She shares how 21 days of practice led her to her husband, and why her business grew 10X once she stopped hustling and started receiving. Consider this your permission to let manifestation feel lighter.

You’ll learn:

What Kabbalistic manifestation is, and why Ayelet Polonsky starts with humility: know your what and your why, then surrender the how and the when to God.
Why everything in your life is happening for you, not to you, and how that reframe gets you out of the victim, perpetrator, and savior triangle.
How the Kabbalah teaching of light and vessels explains growth: bringing consciousness to your pain breaks a vessel, and the bigger vessel holds more light for manifestation.
Why the word "want" signals lack, and how Ayelet used abracadabra, "I create as I speak," plus 21 days of visualization to meet her husband on day 21.
How to tell intuition from your inner opponent: intuition feels instant, exciting, and expansive, while fear lingers and makes your whole nervous system constrict.
Why your nervous system will never release more than you can safely hold, and why slowing down to know yourself feels so unsafe for high achievers..

We talk about:

00:00 Meet Ayelet Polonsky, creator of The Manifestation Method

04:49 How losing a friend at 20 sparked her spiritual awakening

06:11 What is Kabbalistic manifestation

09:01 Is this happening to you or for you

15:04 Light and vessels and how pain builds your capacity

22:38 What abracadabra means and why want creates lack

24:43 How Ayelet manifested her husband in 21 days

28:40 How do you tell intuition from your inner opponent

31:49 Why slowing down to know yourself feels unsafe

38:05 Divine feminine manifestation and the queen archetype

43:31 A cyclone at Kumbh Mela and the voice that said Israel

49:57 What Ayelet would tell her younger self

Connect with Ayelet

Website: https://www.ayeletpolonsky.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ayeletpolonsky

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/ashimron106

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